I got to be good friends with Ernest Costario, Filipino. He couldn't speak any language too well due to a short tongue, and he really had trouble
with English. And he operated on his own level of intelligence, so after a while he would become a drag. But he kept
coming to the school and one day he asked me if I would come for dinner at his house some time. I told him a would.
The next day he asked why I hadn't come. It turned out that he assumed that he had asked me over in definite terms,
whereas I took it as general offer. I guess his mother had prepared a big meal and I didn't show. Bet Joe Burland
would love to be in on that "critical incident", eh? The following weekend I did go there for a meal and then we went to a dance
at Lapahoehoe. Also had a meal with a couple other PCVs in the garage on New Year's Eve. |